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Marky Stein, The Interview ExpertWelcome, I’m Marky Stein, Monster.com’s Interview Expert! What are your questions or worries about interviewing?

 

They can be as seemingly trivial as what shoes to wear or as serious as what to say after a layoff. Tell us what’s on your mind and you’ll get plenty of advice from our community!

 

As an expert interviewing and career coach since 1989 and bestselling author of Fearless Interviewing: How to Win the Job by Communicating with Confidence (McGraw-Hill), I'll try to provide the answers you’re looking for.

 

In addition to being The Interview Expert for Monster.com, you can find me on the Web.

 

Thanks for your participation in the Monster.com Interview Tips message board. YOUR questions and YOUR posts help EVERYONE! What brought YOU to this site and how can we help?

 

Marky Stein

The Interview Expert


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     I recently lost my job due to sleeping on the job (evil hours of work were messing up my doctor's attempts to help my diabetes).  This is my SECOND firing in a row (I was fired because of tardiness from the first one) and let's add to that fact the fact that I'm not getting any younger (the big 4-0 on September 8th!)!  The truth is that I'm scared.  My wife and I want to go the next level (have the house, want the kids), and we couldn't afford it even when I WAS working!  Now...who knows?  I have ALWAYS been wicked nervous at interviews, now I think I'll freak!  Any advice?  Any way you can do interviews for me? smile 
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Hi, I have been out of work for some time now I have had several interviews but no luck hooking the job. Do you have any advise for me that might help out?
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Hi,

I've been out of work for almost a year (including 6 mos medical leave).  How do I tell my prospective employer about an illness which will sometimes render me physically incapable to move.  Most of the time, I am fine. Do I mention it at all or do I discuss this potential issue and when do I bring it up?  I don't want to be hired and then be let go because of attendance issues.  I want to be up front with them.  Please advise.

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An employer is legally not entitled to know anything about your health issues or disabiltilies UNLESS it pertains to how a disability or health issue will effect your performance of the job duties that are outlined for you. It's a roll of the dice for you to tell them or not. It's a deep ethical bind you're in. If you want to be "up front" with them, you're definitely going to decrease the probablitily that you will get a job offer at all.

Let me ask you this. Do you think that a pharmacologist in Switzerland may have just now discovered a drug that will utterly cure your illness, and that my some miracle, the FDA approves it in just a month? Does your prognosis say that you WILL be rendered incapable of moving periodically or that you MAY be rendered incapable of moving? Is there ANY chance, under the sun, that your attendance rate would be on par with the rest of the company?

Think carefully about these things. Theoretically, one could KNOW that they were driving a car with bad brakes, get hired for a job and then get in an accident due to brake problems the next day and have to be hospitalized for a month. Do people disclose the state of their poorly running cars at an interview?

Marky

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  • 7/10/09
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Hello Marky,

Everytime I got on a Interview my stomach starts to hurt. 

Thank You,

Maria S Lemkesmile

 

 

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